http://maxdunbar.wordpress.com/2009/04/11/silence-is-impossible/

http://maxdunbar.wordpress.com/2009/04/11/silence-is-impossible/

Or unposted… :D

There are many things that better to be remained silent or keep it to oneself. I’ve learned that a lot especially after entering the marriage life. Of cause you have to be honest with your partner or spouse but then I think the best policy or the best practice is to think first before you start uttering words that might offend others. You might not have any intention to do that of cause but then perhaps due to the wrong choice of words or phrase that might lead to misunderstanding and yeah, heated argument as well.

For me, I do sometimes have intense dialogue with myself before giving comments or talking. That’s why sometimes it will took quite some time for me to say my piece. Even with that, there are times when I do have regrets on saying something or giving out my opinions and views. Or sometimes my mouth get the better of my brain; shoot first and think later type of situation. Anyway, to err is human rite ;)

I, for those who knows me well love making friends and trying as hard as possible not to have enemies. I know it is difficult to please everybody but then most of the times I will be as diplomatic as possible to everybody.

Some People Never learn…

I’ve read about some defacements done by this guy and probably he is quite happy with it. I refrained myself from putting any comments on his activities as I’ve tried in vain at times to point out the legality of doing it even though the end mean is honorable. I just dun want another hacking expose incidents occurred again. Once is enuff, you should read, learn and yeah think on the consequences.

Who Needs Friends or Customer like this?

My wife is running a business now and of cause there will be a lot of challenges and obstacles that she need to face and will have to face. Recently one of her closest friends accused wifey of cheating her and this hurts wifey so much. The best thing is this friend of wifey voluntary signed a purchase form and her husband voluntarily provide his credit card information over the phone in order to make the purchase. All of the sudden she called wifey and said that she wanted to cancel the purchase after her purchase has been loaded and registered. Wifey tried her best to make a full refund for that cancellation but of cause she needs to observe the refund policy that also includes the cooling off and refund period. Untill today this friend of wifey keeps on calling her, cursing, raised her voices and even wish that my wife should be DEAD on the next day because of this “cheat”(which I didn’t understand which part of the purchase process that wifey cheat her). I believe she didn’t like her husband calling my wifey when he provide the credit card number for that purchase.

There are always thousands of better people than you…

I’ve read Tom Liston’s entry at SANS Incident Handler’s Diary on the Strongwebmail hacking challenge. I do agree with Tom Liston’s opinion that there are no needs of challenging people to “hack” whatever product that you have just to prove that you’re secure/good whatsoever. Like he said,

“When you get to thinkin’ you’re all cool and start taunting people, an ass-whoopin’ usually follows”

I think the people at Strongwebmail have learned from the hard way and yeah costs around USD 10K and depleted image. I think these guys really prove that there no such thing as “unhackable” or “unbreakable” thing in this world. If you think that you’re good, there always thousands of other people who are better than you ;) No need to shout it out aloud :D

But then, Silence is Impossible eh ;)